‘You have to move on...’: Woman Is at a Loss With Ex-husband Who Keeps Coming to Her House Uninvited, Internet Reacts

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    My ex husband keeps coming to my house for lunch.
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    My ex-husband left me for another woman 5 years ago, despite everything he kept coming to my house to eat, he said it was so he could spend more time with the children,
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    that we both should have a healthy relationship for our children. Our children have already graduated and the last one
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    moved away last year, however my ex-husband still comes to my house for lunch, he does not come empty-handed, sometimes he brings ready- made food, he fills my
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    refrigerator with things and sometimes he leaves extra money under a tablecloth. He did not remarry, after abandoning me he had about 4 more partners but none of
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    them worked out. A while ago he told me to give him another chance but I rejected him. Sometimes when I see him he is I just don't open the door and he will sit on my porch until
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    dark and then he just leaves and will come back the next day. He seems pretty depressed, but really I just want to be able to get on with my life.
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    citizen_k19 3 days ago You deserve to get on with your life. Perhaps suggest therapy for him and schedule yourself a vacation. Hopefully by the time you come back he won't be showing up on your door. Best wishes.
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    tinycerveza 3 days ago I agree with this. I think it'd be better for both of them if she was straight up with him. They'll both start to get on with their lives
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    Corfiz74 3 days ago Have you considered dating again? Maybe seeing you with someone new would finally get the message across.
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    Gonebabythoughts 3 days ago He is probably filled with regret about his actions, and realizes what he lost. If you don't want to be friends with him, that's ok. Maybe you can say "I appreciate you spending
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    time with the kids, but they're gone now. I'd like to be able to move on with my life, and part of that means us not seeing each other any more. I hope you understand."
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    Live Review3958. 3 days ago Yeah. Can you kindly tell him you can be friends (if you want) but you're taking time away to figure out who you are after kids? Have fun OP! I hope you enjoy life again!
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    nonlinear_nyc. 3 days ago • edited 3 days ago Yeah. He's marking his territory so no other man ever arrives.
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    If he thought you were considering someone he'd flip. Dude wants freedom and intimacy. And you get... What?
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    WielderOfAphorisms 3 days ago • edited 3 days ago It's time to turn off the porch light, change the locks and have plans out of the house on the regular.
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    He made his choices. You raised your children and co- parented. There is no reason for him to darken your door daily. He chose to leave, now he needs to move on.
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    julzferacia 3 days ago I think a lot of women struggle to understand (myself included) that it is not our responsibility to help them.
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    You know it's time to move on with your life and that's OK. You are allowed to do what's best for you
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    ayymahi 3 days ago . edited 3 days ago the kids are 18+ & out the house. you have no reason to be in contact with him. This man blew his life up for a women who isn't with him anymore lol. I wouldn't even open the door for him & let him stand outside.
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    TheCharmed1DrT · 3 days ago Why are you letting him in the house at all? He made his choice, now you make yours.
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    PelicanosVoladores OP. 3 days ago Idk, I think he makes me feel sorry for him when I see him alone on the porch.
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    FruFanGirl · 3 days ago Sad when a person makes their bed and has to lay in it □

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